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Originally Posted by renuka
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Unhappy marriages are not always the cause for having relationships with others(affairs).
In fact at times to have an effective affair one needs to have a very stable and happy marriage!
Sounds paradoxical but there are individuals who like the stability of a happy marriage and the high of an affair.
Most men or women who have affairs usually are in a very happy marriage and would crumble if their marriages were to break down but at the same time they want a hormonal high of an affair.
Its just that these types like to have the cake and eat it both!
The finding may seem controversial and many like Rishikeshan Ji might not likes this post..but sometimes when a marriage seems happy and all stable still someone either husband or wife might commit suicide..at times affairs help stabilize marriages for individuals who need the stability of marriage and the extra attention of another relationship.
To cut it short its like this....Marriage is like Nirguna Brahman...its stable unchanging...gives us security..An affair is like Saguna Brahman..it is transient in nature yet it gives satisfaction to the devotee cos it has a personal touch.
And the person who subscribes to both marriage and an affair is under the influence of Maya.
In fact at times to have an effective affair one needs to have a very stable and happy marriage!
Sounds paradoxical but there are individuals who like the stability of a happy marriage and the high of an affair.
Most men or women who have affairs usually are in a very happy marriage and would crumble if their marriages were to break down but at the same time they want a hormonal high of an affair.
Its just that these types like to have the cake and eat it both!
The finding may seem controversial and many like Rishikeshan Ji might not likes this post..but sometimes when a marriage seems happy and all stable still someone either husband or wife might commit suicide..at times affairs help stabilize marriages for individuals who need the stability of marriage and the extra attention of another relationship.
To cut it short its like this....Marriage is like Nirguna Brahman...its stable unchanging...gives us security..An affair is like Saguna Brahman..it is transient in nature yet it gives satisfaction to the devotee cos it has a personal touch.
And the person who subscribes to both marriage and an affair is under the influence of Maya.
All things being fair and equal, a man and a woman would yearn for multiple partners, imo.
STD.
(sorry to digress) ;D